Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly coat a baking sheet (13 x 18 x 1) with non stick baking spray and set aside.: You will notice the kitchen warming as the oven approaches temperature, and a consistent preheat ensures even rise and browning. The baking sheet should feel room temperature before the batter goes in, avoiding thermal shock. If the oven is not fully heated you may see uneven dome formation or undercooked center. A common mistake is skipping the spray, which can cause sticking; take a moment to grease the pan thoroughly so the cake releases cleanly.
Combine the cake mix, vanilla pudding mix, eggs, milk, oil and sour cream in a large bowl and beat on low speed for 30 seconds, then medium speed for 1 1/2 to 2 minutes, scraping the sides of the bowl as needed. Pour the cake mix into the prepared pan.: At first the batter will look slightly grainy, then smooth out as air is incorporated; you should hear a gentle stirring sound and see a glossy, uniform batter that ribbons slowly from the beater. Scraping the sides prevents pockets of dry mix, which would create gummy bits in the finished cake. Overbeating can develop excess air and create tunnels or a coarse crumb, so follow the timing closely. If the batter seems too thick, check your measuring for the milk and oil , they control consistency.
Bake for 20 to 25 minutes or until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Let cool completely.: When baking, the top should change from a wet sheen to a matte, springy surface; edges will lightly pull away from the pan. A clean toothpick means the crumb is set but still tender. Cool time is crucial, because a warm cake will cause the filling to sink in or run; allow a full cool down until it feels slightly cool to the touch. Common error is cutting too soon, which results in smearing of layers, so be patient and resist the temptation to slice while warm.
Combine the frozen raspberries, sugar and 1/2 cup water in a small saucepan. Bring the mixture to a small boil, stirring often to break down the raspberries.: As the fruit heats you will hear a gentle simmer and smell intense berry aroma. Berries will break down and release vivid red juice, and stirring helps reduce large chunks. Moderate heat prevents scorching and preserves bright color. If the heat is too high you risk burning the sugars and losing fresh flavor, so maintain a steady simmer and stir frequently to keep the mixture uniform.
In a separate small dish combine the remaining 1/2 cup water with 4 tbsp cornstarch and pour into the simmering raspberry mixture. Let cook for a few more minutes until the filling starts to thicken. Transfer mixture to a bowl to cool completely. Set in fridge until chilled, then spread mixture evenly over the cooled cake.: The cornstarch slurry will sizzle briefly when added, then the mixture will thicken and become glossy; that sheen signals it has reached gel point. Cooling is essential so it does not seep into the cake; you want a spreadable, jammy consistency that holds shape. A frequent mistake is adding the slurry too cold which causes lumps; ensure the slurry is smooth before mixing and whisk quickly into the hot fruit.
Add the cream cheese to a large bowl and beat with mixer until light and fluffy. Add the whipped topping and beat in until fully combined.: When beating the softened cream cheese , you will see it lighten and become airy, with a softer, paler color. Folding in the thawed whipped topping creates a silky cloudlike texture, not a dense frosting. Work at medium speed and scrape the bowl so no pockets of dense cheese remain. If the cream cheese is not fully softened you will get lumps, so plan ahead and bring it to room temperature.
Dollop the cream cheese mixture over the top of the cake and carefully spread into an even layer.: The topping should feel cool and slightly fluffy as you spread; use a wide spatula and gentle strokes to keep it smooth. Visual cues include a glossy, even surface with no streaks or air pockets. Avoid overworking the layer which can flatten the whipped texture. A common slip is trying to spread too aggressively, which can tear the cake surface; work patiently and steady.
Top with fresh raspberries as desired and keep chilled until ready to serve.: Lay the fresh raspberries in patterns or scatter them artfully for a rustic look; their firm texture will contrast with the soft topping. Chilling sets the layers and firms the filling so slices stay intact. Keep refrigerated to maintain texture, and avoid leaving the cake at room temperature for extended periods as the topping will soften and the filling may become runny.