Mix bulgur and 6 cups of water. Let it rest for at least two hours (you can leave it overnight in the fridge).: Right away you will notice the water seeping into the grains, and they should begin to plump and soften to the touch. Gently stir so all the bulgur is moistened, then cover and let it rest, ideally for at least two hours. During this rest you can feel the mixture change as the grains absorb liquid and swell, which is essential for achieving a creamy final texture. If you skip or shorten this soak, the bulgur may remain chalky even after cooking, so resist rushing this step. A common mistake is using cold water straight from the fridge which slows hydration, so room temperature water yields more predictable results.
Boil the bulgur: Place the bulgur, water from soaking, and cinnamon in a heavy pot and boil over medium heat for 5 minutes (add an extra cup of water if it looks like it might need it.): Place the bulgur, water from soaking, and cinnamon in a heavy pot and boil over medium heat for 5 minutes (add an extra cup of water if it looks like it might need it.) : As the pot comes to a simmer you will hear a steady, gentle bubbling and smell the warm barky scent of the cinnamon sticks . The initial boiling helps break down the grain structure and releases starches that begin to thicken the mixture. Use a heavy bottomed pot to ensure even heat distribution, which prevents scorching. Watch closely, because boiling can quickly foam and threaten to overflow; reduce heat if it rises too high. A frequent error here is cranking heat to high to hurry things along, which risks uneven cooking and burned bottoms.
Add milk, clove powder, raisins, salt, lime peels. Cook over low heat until it acquires a pudding-like consistency (10 mins approx), stirring frequently to prevent it from burning. Add sugar to taste.: Cook over low heat until it acquires a pudding-like consistency (10 mins approx), stirring frequently to prevent it from burning. Add sugar to taste. : When the evaporated milk hits the pot, the aroma will deepen and the texture will turn silkier, almost glossy. Stirring frequently scrapes the pot base and keeps the mixture smooth while the raisins plump and infuse sweet pockets. Keep the heat low because high heat can separate or scorch the milk, creating an off flavor. If you find the mixture thickening too fast, remove from heat briefly and stir to cool slightly before returning. A common pitfall is under stirring, which lets the bottom cling and develop burnt bits that are hard to rescue.
Serve warm if you are using it as a breakfast dish or serve in individual bowls and chill to serve as dessert. Sprinkle with nutmeg before serving.: : The final serving choice changes the experience: warm bowls feel soporific and comforting, while chilled servings become a dense, spoonable dessert with a firmer set. When you sprinkle the freshly grated nutmeg the aroma becomes the first thing people notice, and that small finishing flourish elevates the entire bowl. If chilling, let it cool at room temperature first to avoid condensation, then refrigerate in shallow containers for even cooling. A mistake to avoid is reheating at too high a temperature which can make the texture grainy instead of smooth; rewarm gently and stir to reincorporate any separated moisture.