Make the couscous salad. Cook the couscous in a pot of salted boiling water until al dente, about 7 to 8 minutes. Drain and transfer to a medium bowl. Add the olive oil, garlic, lemon juice, lemon zest, dried apricots, salt, several grinds of pepper, and red pepper flakes. Stir in the parsley and almonds and season to taste.: The bowl of cooked couscous gives off a warm, toasty aroma that pairs with the lemon and garlic, creating a layered, aromatic base. As you stir in the grated garlic and olive oil, you will feel the grains separate and begin to glisten, indicating proper texture. The citrus will lift the mixture, cutting through any richness from the oil. A common mistake at this stage is overcooking the couscous until it becomes mushy, which collapses the textural contrast with the eggplant . To avoid this, cook until just al dente and drain promptly. When adding the chopped dried apricots or Medjool dates, toss gently so the fruit distributes evenly without clumping. Season gradually with the heaping 1/4 teaspoon sea salt and several grinds of freshly ground black pepper, tasting as you go. Stir in the parsley and almonds last, which preserves their brightness and crunch. If the salad seems dry, add a touch more olive oil or a squeeze more lemon, but proceed sparingly, because the couscous will continue to absorb flavors as it cools.
Grill the eggplant. Heat a grill to medium-high heat. Drizzle the eggplant with olive oil and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Grill for 2 to 3 minutes per side, or until well-charred and tender.: When the grill reaches medium high heat, you should hear an immediate sizzle as the oiled eggplant hits the grates, and faint smoke will carry that iconic grilled scent. Drizzle each slice with extra virgin olive oil and sprinkle with sea salt and freshly ground black pepper so the surface crisps and develops char lines. Grill for 2 to 3 minutes per side until well charred and tender, watching for deep golden to blackened edges that indicate caramelization. The flesh should yield when pierced with a fork, signaling readiness. One common error is moving the slices too often, which prevents those desirable char marks from forming; let them sit so the Maillard reaction can do its work. If flare ups occur from excess oil, move the slices briefly to a cooler part of the grill until flames subside, then return them to finish. The smell when they are done is smoky, slightly sweet, and utterly delicious.