Preheat oven to 350°. Line two 9-inch round cake pans or three 8-inch round cake pans (see note) with parchment paper and butter and flour them (or use floured cooking spray). You will have some batter left over.: The warm, slightly sweet smell that fills the kitchen as the oven approaches 350° signals readiness. You should hear the faint hum of the oven and feel a steady warmth when you open the door for a moment. This even heat is crucial so the cake rises uniformly and the exterior sets just as the interior finishes cooking. A common mistake is putting the cake into an oven that is not fully preheated, which can cause uneven rise and a dense middle. If your oven runs hot or cool, use an oven thermometer to ensure accurate temperature.
Mix cake mix, water, oil, eggs, bananas, and baking soda in a large bowl on low for 1 minute. Increase speed to medium and beat for 2 minutes.: As you combine the boxed yellow cake mix with the water , oil , eggs , smashed bananas , and baking soda , you will notice the batter change from powder to a glossy, thick mixture that smells faintly of banana and egg. The initial low speed helps hydrate dry ingredients without a cloud of flour, then medium speed aerates the batter and incorporates air for lift. The why here is that this sequence yields a uniform crumb and prevents over mixing. Over mixing is the typical error, which can lead to a tight, rubbery texture, so stop once ingredients are evenly combined and the batter is smooth.
Fill prepared pans equally.: When you distribute batter into the lined pans, you will see the batter level itself but still hold a small peak in the center. I use a scale or measure by eye to ensure each pan gets the same amount, because equal portions bake at the same rate. If pans are unevenly filled, one layer can finish sooner and become dry. A helpful tip is to tap the pans gently on the counter to release large air pockets, which smooths the surface and reduces large holes in the crumb.
Bake for about 30-40 minutes until a toothpick comes out clean. (Time will depend on size of pan.) Cool in pan for at least 10 minutes, then turn out onto a rack to cool completely.: During baking you will watch the edges pull slightly away from the pan and the top will turn a golden hue. The scent of warmed bananas and butter will grow stronger, and you may hear a faint settling sound as the cake finishes setting. The toothpick test tells you the interior is no longer wet with batter, but avoid overbaking because that dries the cake. A typical issue is relying solely on time; pan size affects timing, so start checking at the lower end of the range and remove the cake when the toothpick shows only a few moist crumbs, not wet batter.
While the cake is in the oven, add the caramels and heavy whipping cream to a microwave safe bowl. Heat on HIGH for 2 minutes. Let it sit for one minute, then whisk until caramel is completely melted (reheating as needed).: The cake is very delicate when hot, so letting it rest for about 10 minutes allows the crumb to firm up so it will release cleanly from the pan. You will feel a subtle drop in warmth when you transfer it to a rack, and steam will lift from the surface. Cooling on a rack prevents soggy bottoms by allowing air to circulate. A common slip is trying to frost a warm layer, which causes frosting to melt and slide, so be patient and wait until layers are fully cool.
Once caramel is completely melted, place in the refrigerator to cool completely.: When you microwave the unwrapped caramels with heavy whipping cream , the bowl will soon radiate a warm, sweet aroma and the mixture will look lumpy at first, then glossy as it smooths. Letting it sit for one minute off heat lets residual warmth finish melting the pieces without scorching. This gentle method preserves a smooth, cohesive caramel. Overheating is the usual mistake, which can cause the caramel to seize or burn, so reheat in short bursts and whisk between intervals.
When getting ready to frost the cake, remove cooled caramel from the refrigerator. It will be stiff. Beat with a hand mixer until the caramel becomes more creamy, only a few minutes. Now it is like a thin frosting you can fill your cake with.: As the caramel chills, it firms and becomes easier to manipulate, losing some shine and becoming more set. In the fridge the filling will thicken, which is important so it does not run when you assemble. If it becomes too hard, allow it to come to room temperature briefly or beat it to soften. Avoid leaving it unrefrigerated too long because it may be too loose and seep through your frosting barrier.
Beat butter and cream cheese until fluffy. Slowly beat in powdered sugar, 1 cup at a time, mixing until frosting has formed. Mix in vanilla.: Once chilled, beating the caramel briefly on low will transform it into a pipeable, slightly spreadable consistency. You should see it turn from stiff to glossy and smooth after a few minutes, and it will smell rich and butter forward. This step matters because it creates the desirable, spreadable filling that stays in place. A pitfall is overbeating into a grainy texture, so stop when it becomes smooth and slightly soft.
To assemble your cake, place some frosting in a pastry bag fitted with your choice of tip (I used a 1 M). If needed, trim the top of your cake layers to make them level.: When you whip the softened butter and softened cream cheese , the mixture will lighten in color and gain volume, becoming airy. Gradually adding the powdered sugar keeps the frosting silky rather than gritty. The vanilla ties the flavors together. This technique ensures a stable frosting that pipes well; rushing by adding all the sugar at once can lead to a heavy, clumpy texture.
Place one layer on cake plate. Pipe a rim around the edge with cream cheese frosting, creating a barrier for the caramel filling. Evenly spread caramel on the bottom layer. Place top cake layer on the caramel. Frost the cake as desired.: As you pipe a rim of cream cheese frosting around the edge of the first layer, you will create a visual wall that holds the caramel in place. Spread the caramel inside that ring so it sits like a glossy jewel on the crumb. When you place the top layer and frost the exterior, the contrast between the matte frosting and shiny caramel center is delightful. A frequent mistake is skipping the rim and having the caramel ooze out, so take the extra minute to pipe that barrier for a tidy finish.